Now I'm sure you ask why did I say she was fortunate to get this before graduate school? Here's the thing, when you're in graduate school they pound into your brain this paradigm, or framework, for what counseling is and what it is like for someone who has mental instability. Let me pair it down even further- the people (the clients) you will see (the therapist) are messed up and broken. You can't fix them, but you can show them empathy and caring and that will ease the pain. That's what everyone gets to learn in graduate school. Well no wonder so many people are wary of coming to see a counselor. Who wants to be left feeling like their broken and un-fixable? So for those of us who have gone through graduate school and worked out in this field we have a pretty heavy framework or, paradigm, about counseling. When you begin to learn Rapid Resolution Therapy Dr. Connelly will tell you to forget all your other training and just think about the world, clients, people, the human brain, the way he's going to explain it. And it's different and unusual from what you currently think you know is the truth about the world.
What begins to happen, the more you train with Dr. Connelly is that your framework is totally busted and burned in some metaphorical fire-pit and a whole new one is constructed. This framework begins to encompass your entire life. Not just how you view your clients, but how you view others in your world and the human world at large. Suddenly you see and know how with Rapid Resolution Therapy you can dramatically impact people because you can fix what has been stuck for them. (Read carefully: before it was you can't fix what was broke NOW you can fix what was stuck) Man how powerful is that? Not just for a therapist but for the client to come see a mental health professional who can fix the small little problematic way that their mind has been working. It's just like a computer glitch, it's fixable. That's why every counselor and social worker got into this field, to make things better! If you have the ability to fix things of course things get better.
So yeah- "It's not a flipping modality, It's a flipping revolution." The majority of treatment in mental health/substance abuse does a lot to secretly enable people to stay stuck. I know social workers doing Rapid Resolution Therapy in ER settings loosing their jobs because a person came in suicidal/depressed, they spent 15 minutes clearing the trauma that caused the emotional reaction and sent the patient home only to find the ER Doc was mad because they lost a patient that could have been hospitalized? How ef'ed up is that? They went home healthy, but it would have been better to keep them stuck in that trauma so the hospital could fill a bed???
And to answer the question how often do I use RRT? All the time, everyday, everywhere. With every client that comes through my counseling door, my daughter, my husband, my friends...the list goes on and on. It's not modality, it's a way of life.
On a side note I'm so excited and grateful to have met Valerie Smith at this training. I have no doubt she's going to be a force to reckon with and I plan to watch her revolutionize the mental health field, and I'm darn sure going to help her do it!
Ok- now to take a deep breath...my next Rapid Resolution Therapy post is going to help you understand how this becomes the framework for everything in life...
Be well, Be happy-Tara S. Dickherber, M.Ed, CPC

PS I have revised this post to give credit where credit is due, Dr. Jason Quintal is the genius who helped me see how RRT is a new paradigm/framework...He also was sweet enough to pop on a comment on this post!! Thanks Jason, I am honored!
6 comments:
Tara,
It was amazing to meet you this weekend. There are so many amazing people coming together to bring some much needed change to this industry. With people like you on it's side, RRT is gonna excel!!! Thank you for your kind words and for editing the expletives. :)
-Val Smith
Tara, Great info on RRT. RRT creates a new paradigm for therapist to work. It is not a tool you use in addition to the other things you have learned. Instead it creates a new framework. It is contextual shift and out of it you become a much more effective therapist!
Hi Tara, could'nt make the training this past week. Jon is coming to California next month and I am helping with that training. I can't echo enough what you have said in your post. I have completely changed the way that I think and practice as a result of RRT. I am seeing immediate and dramatic transformational results from my clients and those around me. Keep on this path. Hopefully I will see you in the future at one of the trainings.
John Smith Ph.D., LCSW
This is a really excellent blog, Tara. I've always been impressed with the energy and excitement that's generated through RRT, and especially how that energy and excitement expand exponentially during the weekend trainings. Anyone who has been touched by RRT is better and brighter because of it. It was wonderful meeting you this weekend, and i hope to see you at future trainings.
Hi Tara, Am enjoying reading your blog -- the energy you have for what you are doing shines through! I share that excitement with you, as RRT has rocked my world! It's the best thing ever to come out of a counseling session energized and excited. As a practicioner that excitement comes from making a difference in my patient's lives, and seeing them CLEAR and FREE from what has been causing them pain. That's why we do what we do, isn't it? To help people get well and move ahead with their lives. Thanks for your excitement, inspiration, and boldness!
Holly Craig
Hi Tara. thanks for your energy and concise way of putting the difference out there of what we can now do. I posted a tip of the hat to your blog on my Facebook page also. Your comment about the social worker reminds me of some experiences I've been through. You try to tell other trained people about how powerful this is and you can get jumped. People will defend their own favorite therapies with religious zeal and immediately proclaim anyone who questions them as dangerous and unprofessional. I want to ask them, "Yeah, but does it work? Can you keep an open mind?" I feel like I am still de-toxifying myself from the language leftovers of all the years of training. Some of it was useful, but as you say, most of it leaves the client feeling supported, but more hopeless and damaged. Ok, onward we go, doing this very different thing. I invite you to see my blog and I want to keep up with your excellent comments also. Mark Chidley
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